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Step by Step - Supporting you to support them

If you live in Essex, Southend-on-Sea, or Thurrock and are worried that someone you know may be experiencing an unhealthy relationship or domestic abuse, Step by Step are here for you. We can give you information, guidance, and advice on how you can support the person you’re concerned about, while keeping yourself safe.

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Further info

Are you worried about someone’s relationship? For example, their relationship doesn’t feel safe or healthy, you’ve noticed changes in their behaviour or you’ve seen or heard things that don’t feel right. If youʼre worried about someone, please donʼt ignore it. Talking, listening and staying alongside them can make a real difference.

You donʼt have to have all the answers, but we can help you think things through. Step by Step delivered by Barnado's and Greater Essex authorities, offer advice and support to help you understand what is happening and how you can help your friend or family member safely.

Please be aware, we are not an emergency service. If you think someone is being harmed or in immediate danger of being harmed, call the police on 999.  You can also report domestic abuse by calling 101 or report to the police online. Specially trained police officers will respond.

 
For further details visit our website Step by Step | Barnardo's

Who can use this service?

If you are aged 16+, live in Essex, Southend-on-Sea, or Thurrock and are worried that someone you know may be experiencing an unhealthy relationship or domestic abuse, we’re here for you.

How are services delivered?

Our support phone line 01245 821179 is available Monday- Friday 9am-5pm

You can book a 1:1 virtual appointment with a Support Advisor online.

You can also reach out to us via web-chat through our website Step by Step | Barnardo's

Locations

Barnardo House, Tanners Lane Barkingside, Illford IG6 2DQ
Phone - Mon-Fri 9am-5pm
Web chat - Mon 10am-12 noon, Thurs 5-7pm, Fri 8-10am
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